Cohabitation
I'm gonna get lynched on this one... I know this is a very sensitive subject to be writing about; trust me, you don't want to get into a polemic with someone that zealously defends the notion of living together before marriage. Nevertheless, this is something that I wanted to write (or rather, transcribe) for quite some time now: Understanding what will make us happy as men and women is like seeing a man, behind a fence, walk with erratic movements. At first you might think he is a little drunk only to realize that he is actually walking with two big dogs: Often we do not have the whole picture. Our view is limited to what we see and feel, to what's visible and sensible. However, there is an entire world that cannot be immediately seen and yet is still very real. We cannot see gravity, but we can see its effects when we knock over a glass of water. As human beings, we cannot see our soul, yet we can see its effects -when we love another, or when a mother stays up la...